There have been 1070 people convicted of terrorism untill 2016, some of them have been paid off the sentence. By the end of the sentence, it does not guarantee them not to involve into the same action. Some of them choose to join the radical group and others have repented and now live normally in the midst of society. This research aims to elaborate on the role of wife in the process of de-radicalization so that the husband would not be back involving into the same action. By using phenomenology approach, the result shows that, in two ex-terrorists families, the wives has important role to do deradicalization in their families so that their husband would not be back involving into terrorist act. The process of deradicalization has already begun when the husband is in prison, i.e. by visiting their husband regularly. In addition, the wives also try not to depend on their husband economically, this can immediately keep the husband from the group that he followed. This research conclude that the deradicalization based on family can be regarded as a more effective way to do deradicalization and it can be complementary the existing approach. Keyword: Deradicalization, Terrorism Convicted, Women, Prison