Transformation of gender relation provides a construction of a gender sensitive paradigm. Traditionally in the social and symbolic position women belonged to the private recesses of society in family relationships controlled and defned men, in silence. In contrast to the traditional “man focused perspective feminist analyses evaluates not only outcome but the fundamental concept values and assumption embedded in traditional theories which are controlled by men and reflect their concerns “gender sensitive feminism seeks to correct the imbalance and unfairness in gender relation system resulting from the implementation of perspective excluding attention to the circumstances of women’s gendered lives. Women struggle to transform their position to be equal to men’s position there has been many things: there has been a strategy for improving the distribution of social goods between women and men, there has been a goal in its own right, there has been a method of defending women against the worst oppression of women, there has been a way to construct the public (in patriarchal terms) for women, and it terms that women can tolerate. Key word: Transformasi, Relasi, Gender.