HARMONY OF EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE AND SPIRITUAL MATURITY IN THE JOURNEY OF MARRIED LIFE: A Synthesis of Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi's Life Balance Theory and Maqashid Shariah

Abstract

The marital journey constitutes a multifaceted phase involving physical, social, emotional, and spiritual interactions between two individuals. This research seeks to delve into a profound understanding of the role of balance between emotional intelligence and spiritual maturity in the context of the marital journey. A literature review details key concepts related to life balance, emotions, and spirituality. Additionally, employing a qualitative research approach grounded in the theoretical frameworks of Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi's Life Balance Theory and Maqashid Shariah. The results of the analysis show that marriage is a central foundation in shaping family, society, and individuals. Marriage provides a sturdy structure, deep emotional engagement, and a positive impact on mental and physical health. The role of emotional intelligence in guiding partners through the dynamics of marital life is the primary focus of this research. Emotional intelligence aids in managing conflicts, celebrating shared successes, and providing space for personal and collective growth. On the other hand, spiritual maturity also plays a crucial role in shaping individuals' spiritual, moral, and intellectual dimensions, with positive impacts on brain function and the nervous system. Analysis based on Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi's Life Balance Theory highlights that balancing emotional intelligence and spiritual maturity creates a strong foundation for happiness in the marital journey. Research findings also support the objectives of Maqashid Shariah, particularly in maintaining lineage, religion, and morality within the context of marriage. In conclusion, the marital journey necessitates harmony between emotional intelligence and spiritual maturity. This balance provides a solid foundation for building a meaningful household and achieving the objectives of Maqashid Shariah. This research contributes significantly to understanding the importance of emotional and spiritual balance in the marital journey.