Second Puberty in Marriage Islamic Family Law Perspective

Abstract

Marriage is part of Islamic orders to create a harmonious, prosperous, happy family. Marriage sometimes has a lot of ups and downs, especially at the age of 40, physical changes, self-confidence begin to change, and demands are different. When husband and wife do not understand the changes that occur can be fatal to the marriage. The second puberty is oriented towards fulfilling psychological needs, affection, and attention from the partner. The aim of this research is to find out the second puberty in marriage from the perspective of Islamic law. The method used is library research with a constant analysis approach. Research findings, the second puberty can occur when entering the age range of 40 years. There is a change in behavior. Control of the second puberty: Straighten the intention that marriage is part of the perfection of worship to Allah SWT. Growing affectionate love, love in the intimacy of husband and wife is always guarded with gentle and pleasant words. Realization of religious values ​​in the family, protecting the family from everything that is prohibited by Islam. Learning to play a new role in line with physical and psychological changes that must be in tune.